Adoration Bible Journal

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A little over a year ago, I received a journaling Bible as a gift. I already had one that I was working through, and I wasn’t quite sure what to do with a second. I put it on the shelf for a while, contemplated giving it as a gift, but then I randomly had an idea….

What if I read and journaled through this Bible specifically with the purpose of learning who the Lord was and worshiping Him for those things?

I decided it seemed like a good endeavor and this extra became my “Adoration Bible”. My daughters actually know which one I’m asking for if they are fetching it for me by that name. (I find that kinda sweet.)

So I set out on this journey over a year ago adoring the Lord as He has revealed Himself in the Scriptures using this little black journaling Bible. I had no idea at the time what a great impact it would have on my heart and spiritual life.

Fast forward a year later, and I can’t imagine life without this practice. It gives my heart a solid anchor to cling to moment by moment.

3 things Adoration Bible journaling does for the believer

 1. It stirs up enjoyment and delight in God.

The Westminster catechism says that the chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. I tend to be a “what do I need to do” kinda girl when I read the Bible, which is not a bad thing. In many ways, we should read the Scriptures with a submissive heart that says, “not my will, but Yours be done” and realizing that the Scripture is where the Lord has revealed His law and will to us. It’s an important piece, Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commandments.” What we do (our obedience) is important, but that is only one piece of the puzzle. To enjoy God, how do we do that? Well we have to meditate on who He is and let those truths permeate our hearts, then they will flow from our lips and thoughts. Nothing quite sustains our hearts on the darker days like meditating on who God is and praising Him for it.  We should be praising the Lord often in our hearts and with our mouths, or our little typing fingers… however it is we are communicating, we should be communicating how wonderful the Lord is because that should be flowing from our hearts. But those things will not be the meditations of our hearts if we aren’t intentionally seeking them out.

Now one quick thing about obedience, I dare say that the two things, obedience and adoration (loving and enjoying God) go hand in hand. You really can’t have one without the other. You may find people who are filled up with obedience ideas and that is their heart focus. They talk about how they live this way and that and they have the Scripture to back it up, but they have no love and delight in God Himself. That’s a huge red flag! Often times that means they love those laws because of the way their obedience is self-exalting above those who don’t obey. And then on the other side of this cliff, there are those who get extremely excited to talk about the things of the Lord, they lift hands high, dance, jump, leap, and shout about how great and wonderful God is, but do not seek to know and obey His commandments. That is not true love for God, because again remember that Jesus said if we love Him we will keep His commandments. True love for Him seeks to say, “what are the commandments, and oh Lord help me to keep them!, with all my heart I want to!”  We definitely need both sides of the coin. We should love and delight in the Lord, and if that love and delight is genuine then it will be lived out in our obedience to the Lord.

2. It helps us to guard our hearts against lies about who God is or isn’t.

For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not according to knowledge. -Romans 10:2

This Scripture often jumps off the page to me when I read it. In the context Paul is talking about the Jews, how they worship God by trying to keep the law in order to be made right before the Lord. They are zealous for the Scripture and the Law without the knowledge of Jesus Christ and how He is our righteousness and fulfillment of the law.

In a similar but different way I see this same problem of zealousness without knowledge in our own culture. Modern America has a different problem than the Jews. Here we have so many brands of Christianity, some of those sadly are nothing close to the Bible and what it says. They alter their lives, they live with zeal, but sadly it is zeal without knowledge. I find myself often puzzled by certain “christian” bloggers who will say God is like this, Jesus is like that, the Lord approves of this action or that one, and they have absolutely no Biblical basis for the claims they are making. Not a Scripture one is mentioned. Just making up a god of their own ideas and liking, an idol to put it more accurately, and they are calling it, “Jesus”. This is so dangerous. And it is everywhere. Too often because of the popularity of these types of unscriptural claims there are even Christians who will believe these and begin sharing them with their brothers and sisters.  People tend to like their ears tickled. The feel good messages with “Jesus” stamped on it tend to make rounds quite quickly. Oh how easily we can be deceived when we are not guarding our hearts and holding fast to what the Lord has revealed in the Scripture. That is another reason adoration Bible journaling is such a valuable practice. It not only stirs up our hearts to love and enjoy God by seeing clearly who He is, but it also teaches us what is true about Him so that when deceptions come we will be able to fight against the schemes and lies of the evil one and those who are under his influence.

3. It gives a solid place to fix our hearts, hope, and joy no matter what happens in our lives.

Awhile back I wrote a post on rejoicing in the Lord. This has been instrumental in enabling me to do that in the throws of motherhood. Children are a blessing, but there are also many challenges that come with serving, teaching, and training these sweet children day in and day out. When the house-work piles up, the kids act up, and I feel utterly exhausted, I still have a steady place to fix my heart. Although my situations change moment by moment, there is no shadow of turning with the Lord. He remains the same beautiful and magnificent Lord.


It took me a little while to get a method, but now here is what I do:

  • I choose a book of the Bible to go straight through. (Usually it’s something we are going through at church or in family devotions) In between books or for a change of pace, I will go through a Psalm.

I think it’s important even while focusing on adoration to go straight through books of the Bible, also it’s just as important to pick books you wouldn’t necessarily think of such as Deuteronomy, and remembering that God is the same today as He was then, but now the covenant has been fulfilled through Jesus Christ. You can look for the promises of the Savior to come, but also pay close attention to the holiness and righteousness of God. The reason I believe it is important to do this is to keep us from picking and choosing certain attributes to focus on to the neglect others. God has many attributes, and we should seek to worship Him for all of them, not just the ones that make us feel warm fuzzies. All of His attributes are good.  Also this method keeps us understanding the Scripture in context. It is important that we know what God is really saying about Himself, and not just an idea we get from a sentence or two pulled out of context.

  • I pray that the Lord would reveal Himself to me and cause my heart to delight more in Him.
  • I read through the passage a bit; analyze what it is saying in general, and specifically what it is saying about God. Then  I go back through a second time with a highlighter (colored pencils tend to make the best in my opinion because they do not bleed through). I highlight the sentences that tell me something about the character of God.
  • I then read those over and over, meditate on many different aspects of those truths and begin praising the Lord for those things. At this point I also start journaling prayers and praises of who He is in the journaling space.
  • Throughout the day or next few days I try to keep focusing on these things. Often times I will find a place to keep my adoration Bible opened to that page so that I can come back to it and bring my mind back to those truths in the chaos of kids and homeschooling and house cleaning. This is why the journaling and highlighting is so helpful. I can simply take a quick glance at the page and remember what I learned.

An Example of Adoration Bible Journaling with Psalm 16

Psalm 16 is one of my favorites. I recently went through it in my adoration Bible and although I’ve had it memorized for over a year and have meditated on it many times, this brought new things to light for me that I had not seen before. Here is a look at the page.

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Now I don’t do this every single day, although it would be a fabulous thing to do every day! …..but many days I just read and pray through my Bible reading plan using the Bible app on my phone, and I try to work this in whenever I can. I always find the 10 to 30 minutes I spend on it to be time very well spent. It’s the perfect pick-me-up when it’s been a crazy day- when my hubby gets home, I often ask if I can have 30 minutes of quiet in the bedroom before we all move into dinner. Adoration Bible Journaling is one the best actives to fill that time with for me. Another time I love to do it is when my children are playing outside in the evenings after dinner. If everyone is playing nicely then I can sneak this in and it’s so refreshing. I share this tid-bit to say that even busy moms can do it! And it doesn’t have to be this all or nothing thing. Just do a few verses at a time.

I hope this concept of Adoration Bible Journaling is helpful!

Blessings to you as you grow in knowing and adoring the one true living God!

Family Albums Made Simple

My big spring cleaning project is a bit different this year. I have an area of clutter that I have put off and put off for quite some time. I finally decided to take the plunge and get it done. What is this project? Photos! Literally, thousands of digital photos on my computer. I have years worth of unprinted pictures. In fact I had almost no printed photos of my youngest four children until just recently. I had SO MUCH digital clutter, and not a single real family album to show for it.

Once I dove into this project, I can not tell you how happy I was to have these precious memories in albums where we as a family can delight in them and (Lord willing) treasure them for many many years. It was way easier than I ever imagined it would be. So for those of you super busy mamas with a mountain of digital photos just waiting to be printed and enjoyed, this post is for you.

You all know me, I need simple or it just will not happen.

Once upon a time, a long long time ago I use to be a scrapbooker. To be honest, my scrapbooking side was a part of the reason I never tackled my photo printing. I had a vision of one day scrapbooking all of these precious memories on gorgeous spreads, but the more children I had and the more photos I took, the more I began to see that “one day” may never come. I contemplated what I actually had the time and energy to accomplish, and this is what I did.

Family Albums Made Simple

  1. I uploaded ALL OF MY PHOTOS into Amazon Prime Photos. Did you know Amazon has unlimited photo storage for prime members? I love it! It was mind-blowingly simple. Amazon literally does all the organizing work for you, they sync everything and put it in order by the date it was taken. They even sync phone photos if you download the app. That’s the kind of simple this mama needed!Processed with VSCO with a5 preset
  2. I decided this album would be our yearly family albums. It holds 400 4×6 pictures. I figure I can dwindle it down to 400 favorites that really capture the highlights of our year. I take a lot of pictures of our daily life, so 400 is a top best kind-of thing. But really, in the end isn’t that what we want, our all time favorites in the album? Now on trips or vacations I probably take about 400 photos (easily), for that reason I decided to do something different to print and keep those special trip details, Chatbooks! I’m going to share a bit more about that below. For the yearly family albums I may select 5-10 of group photos of really special moments on the trip, and save all the others for the Chatbook.Processed with VSCO with a4 preset
  3. Now are you ready for this? I printed the pictures from amazon photo printing. Let me say that again, I printed the pictures. This is a big deal for me ya’ll! I can’t believe how long I put this off waiting for the right time to perfectly edit, crop, and scrapbook them. So glad I got over that! Here’s what I did: I started with the most recent year; no filters, no edits, no cropping, just printing. I clicked the little check boxes of about 400 favorites  from 2016 and hit order. They came to my doorstep two days later. I told you I needed simple. It got done! I just thought, “simple pictures in an album are better than digital pictures just waiting to become the casualty of a computer crash”… way better! Right? Processed with VSCO with a5 preset
  4. I was able to put them all in the 2016 family album in one Sunday afternoon. This process was so fun and non-stressful! I was able to look at and delight in the little memories as I simply placed them in the album. I left a few spaces empty to place 4×6 cardstock with handwritten journaling about the little details I want us to remember for years to come. I haven’t done the journaling step yet, (I’ll add photos and update here once I do.) but these or something similar are the 4X6 lined journaling cards I plan to use. I will write on them and slide them in, and that satisfies the scrapbook side of me just fine. One neat idea for people who can’t quite fill up 400 spaces, order some cute project life cards and slide them in to give the spread a little extra something.Processed with VSCO with a4 preset

Easy Peasy. Now time to start on the 2015 album and keep working my way back.

Here’s a little look into the album. After seeing it come together, I may actually like the simplicity of this better than my scrapbook spreads that I worked hours on. The focus here is the memories, pure and simple, just as they were in real life. It’s beautiful to me.

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Trip, Vacation, and Specialty Albums

Now about those trip and vacation albums. I used Chatbooks.

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The reason I went with Chatbooks is because they are so simple to put together (because ya know, I need simple), and very inexpensive to order.

In fact you can use this code to get a book for free (I believe it’s the soft cover 60 page book) : UP2QX4T2

Which reminds me, Chatbooks is amazing with instagram and facebook photos. It will pull them right from your account and put the book together for you, dated and captioned. All of your photos and captions can be easily printed in lovely $8 books or upgrade to a hardcover for $5 more. You can even change captions, or choose to not add certain photos that were on your insta or fb that you don’t need or want in your family album. I am currently working on using my Abiding Woman instagram photos as a personal journal where I keep little thoughts, reflections, favorite Scriptures or hymns, and encouragements alongside my instagram photos. I just linked Chatbooks to my instagram and I’m working through the journaling in my free time. But you don’t have to do it through instagram or facebook, you can just get on the site and upload from your computer. That’s what I did with my trip albums. It’s so so simple! They have adorable cover options also, so be sure to click the little lightbulb and check them out.

I recently created a book filled with our Banff, Glacier, and Mount Rushmore photos. Here’s a little look at it.

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This is how I plan to do all of our family trips. And one day soon, when all my current projects are caught up, I plan to make Chatbook baby books for each of my girls and gift books for family. It’s so simple and affordable, and you can do so much with it. The books are a great size, not at all bulky. They make great keepsakes to display on a coffee table or to slide on a shelf. I love it!

Time to get started.

So if printing and documenting your family memories is long overdue, then do what this busy mama did. It was easy peasy, and I LOVE my albums! It’s time to clean out all those beautiful photos and put them where they belong, in your hands. Make it your spring cleaning project.

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Family albums made simple.

Casting Down the Idol of a Clean Home

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In the midst of spring cleaning season this may seem like an odd post. So let me start out by saying with honesty and enthusiasm that I believe in having a clean home. A clean house is a good thing! It is a good thing to work for and it is good to desire to have. I absolutely love when my house is all clean! That may seem like a bit of a strange intro to a post entitled “Casting Down the Idol of a Clean Home”, but I think it’s an important starting point. As women we are called by God to be sensible and pure workers at home. (Titus 2:5) One of our primary roles given to us by the Lord is to work within our homes serving our husbands and children. This means we are the ones who do (or delegate and oversee) the dusting, the laundry, the toilet scrubbing, dishes, and the list goes on. That is good and right, and we should do that with joy! We should desire to do it well, and work diligently to improve in areas that we struggle in. We should do this job heartily as unto the Lord, and not to please men.

Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve. (Colossians 3:23-24)

I believe whole-heartedly that the idolizing of a clean house comes when we are no longer doing our work of homemaking as unto the Lord, but instead we are doing it to please ourselves and the eyes of men. All idolatry is sin against the Lord that must be confessed and repented of. A Christian lady will not walk in this once she sees it, she will turn from it and call upon the help of the Holy Spirit to do so. She will give herself to meditating on God’s Word and to spiritual disciplines, and she will fight this sin. I say that so plainly because it’s easy to read a post like this and think, “Oh, I do that too, glad I’m not the only one”, and then never actually repent of it. It is one thing to read a post like this and recognize a sin problem, but that won’t really accomplish anything. Our response when we see idolatry in our hearts is to turn from it: that will likely begin as turning from it moment by moment, bringing all of your thoughts captive and making them obedient to Christ, confessing our sins and failures to the Lord and knowing He will forgive us. In time by the help of the Spirit you will grow stronger, and your heart will learn to look more faithfully to the Lord as you work, and these temptations to idolatry will be less and less. Sanctification is such an amazing and freeing thing! It brings such joy! But sanctification does take willingness and work on our behalf, and it is worth pursuing. This is what it looks like to submit to Jesus as Lord.

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Clean House Idolatry Hearthcheck

Here are a few things we can ask ourselves to identify the idol of a clean home.

  • Do I lose my joy, am I consumed with anxiety when we have a life event (sickness, pregnancy, or a similar event) that prevents me from tending to the house and it seems as if everything falls behind and out of order? Or will I accept that this is exactly what the Lord has for us right now? It was in His sovereign plan for this event to occur, and He intends to use it for our good and for His glory. Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things. The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you. (Philippians 4:4-9) Will I think on this truth when the going gets tough and find my joy in Him or will I let the mess in my house cause me to sin against the Lord with my anxiety and despair? We must learn to rejoice even in the midst of chaos, weakness, and messes.
  • Do I put my to do list and cleaning schedule before my kids? Do I value productivity more than people? Do I feel like I have more important things to do in the area of cleaning and homemaking that I neglect the hearts of my children? Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. (Philippians 2:3-4) Honestly ladies, I struggle with this, that’s why I’m writing about it…. I’ve been thinking about this. I have a vision of being a nurturing relational mother, and yet at the end of some days I regret that while I did get a lot done on my list; laundry is caught up, floors are mopped, closets are organized, some freezer meals were put together, but I didn’t really interact with my children in meaningful ways. That is not how I want to live, and I don’t think that is right. God has given these children to me as one of my first priorities. The messes clean up and get messy again, but teachable moments and sweet little opportunities to really deepen relationship with my children don’t always come back around.
  • Do I get quick tempered with my children, lose my patience and gentleness, yell at them because they are making a mess or making it impossible for me to get anything done around the house? Do I act out of my flesh or am I walking in the Spirit when these things happen? But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. (Galatians 5:22-24) Do I sigh, moan, and grumble at my little interruptions that hinder productivity? Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world. (Phillipians 2:14-15) I too have to take these thoughts captive and turn from this behavior; I don’t have this all together, but I’m identifying it and I’m choosing to see these little people as God sees them. Children are called a “heritage” or “gift” and a “reward” in the Bible. Behold, children are a gift of the LORD, The fruit of the womb is a reward. (Psalm 127:3) God views them as way more important than a clean home. I think this is something we would do well to think on often in regards to the children He has given us, do we treat them as more important than a clean home?

If you see yourself in any of this, then join me in casting down this idol.

Casting down the idol

We must begin to turn our hearts more and more fully to the Lord for all things.

  • He has given grace upon grace to cover this sin struggle of idolizing our clean house by sending Jesus to die for our sins; He took the wrath this idolatry deserves upon Himself. That is such a joyful and freeing thing. We do not have to walk in defeat or despair. We can walk in victory in our pursuit of holiness.
  • He has given His Word to shape our thoughts and renew our minds so that we will know what is true and right.We must be willing to do the hard work of renewing our minds. It may help you to write some of the Scriptures above down and put them up on the fridge so that you can pray through them and meditate on them when the house is getting messy and you’re starting to lose your cool.
  • He has given us the Holy Spirit to help us put this sin to death and to turn from it when temptation comes. When you feel those anxious thoughts about the messes in the house creeping in, pray and ask for the help of the Spirit. We have a good Father who loves to care for His children and give them what they need to overcome sin.

He has given us everything we need to cast down this idol of a clean home and to worship the Lord in and through our homemaking, child raising, and all the many productivity interruptions that the Lord has planned for us.

Let us run to Him today.

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Spring Cleaning Challenge Giveaway!

Now for all of you who are trying to do a bit of spring cleaning, I have something fun! How can it be? Another instant pot giveaway? And a $50 amazon gift card? I know, awesome, right? All the details are below!

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Rejoice Always

Rejoice Always

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. -Philippians 4:4-7 NASB

Rejoice in the Lord

“Rejoice in the Lord always”, this is one of those commands in Scripture that can often leave us feeling a bit conflicted. We all have times that we definitely do not feel like rejoicing, and yet we are called to rejoice always. How do you rejoice when the baby kept you up all night, you wake hazily to a sink full of dishes and energetic children bursting at the seems ready to start the day? How do you rejoice when your best friend betrays you? How do you rejoice when someone you love deeply dies? How do you rejoice when you’ve been pouring your heart and soul into homemaking and homeschooling ,and then someone criticizes your efforts and says they aren’t good enough or points out all your failures? How do you rejoice when you are sick or in pain? How do you rejoice when your child is suffering?

There are many circumstances in life that we will not at all feel like rejoicing in, but the the Scripture does not say rejoice in your circumstances; instead it calls us to rejoice “in the Lord” and “always” because the Lord is always something to be rejoicing in! The goodness, majesty, and love of the Lord are constant and never-ending. There are good moments in life, but they end. There are moments when we encounter majesty in creation, music, art, or photography, but those moments end as well. There are moments when our marriage, motherhood, and friendships are flourishing and filled with love, but even those things are not constant either. Sin and death taint this world we are living in, but we can rejoice in Jesus Christ, the one who conquered sin and death and all the effects that flow from them. Perhaps in those deepest moments of longing and pain, that is where we can rejoice in Him the most; when the parts of life that bring us joy are stripped away and we find that He is the sweetest, purest, never-ending source of joy.

Rejoice Always

A Gentle Spirit

Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. (vs 5) In the ESV it says “reasonableness”. I think the two words in both translations can give us a good idea of what is meant here. I have little girls, 5 of them, and I’m a girl so maybe I’ve seen this in myself a time or two…. (ahem); it is really evident when emotions are ruling the day. When you see it in yourself or another, it is absolutely undeniable…. the person is anything but gentle or reasonable. They tend to be fretful, harsh, negative, whiny, overly sensitive. But the woman whose heart is rejoicing in Christ is not looking to her circumstances for peace and joy. She has a certain calmness of spirit about her. She is not panicked or complaining, she isn’t up late fretting over what may have happened or what might happen in the future. She’s resting in Christ and knowing that no matter what life sends her way Jesus will be hers to cherish and enjoy from now until eternity, and that is more than enough. She takes great comfort in knowing that her trials and challenges are only for her good and His glory, they were given by the sovereign hands of a loving Father. And this heart posture is so clear to all who come in contact with her: the ones who see her inside the four walls of her home and the ones who only know her in passing. There is a sweet confidence that is evident in her…. not a confidence that she has in herself, but a confidence that she has in the Lord who is in her and who is greater than the trials and evil in the world.

Be Anxious for Nothing

Be anxious for nothing. (vs 6a) Be anxious for nothing, is that a tall order or what?! How many of you worry about things? This is a battle I personally have to fight. I can allow myself to become worried about my children, or about what others think of me, or about my health, or about how I’m going to be able to “do everything I need to do”.  And that is not okay. I have to repent of those things and focus my heart back on the Lord and what is true. Our anxiousness is truly a sin that we must repent of! I know it may at times seem like something we can’t help, but that is a lie. We can take our thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ, we have the Holy Spirit in is and we have the Word of God that says we can walk in victory. This anxiousness is actually a bigger problem than we might even see on the surface, it says something…. it says, “I don’t trust you God! I don’t trust your wisdom, I don’t trust your sovereignty, and I don’t trust your power.” This is why it is so important for us to repent of. I have many times found myself saying, “Lord, please forgive me for not trusting in Your power and plan in this situation”, and I’m so thankful that the we Jesus is our advocate with the Father when we do sin, He is so gracious to forgive us and restore us. And He will also give us victory! He will strengthen our faith when we ask Him too. Truly anxiousness is a lack of faith. We may believe that His wisdom, sovereignty, and power are trustworthy with our lips and minds; but our actions and responses say more about what we believe than our ability to affirm a truth.

Compared with our actual thoughts our credal statements are of little consequence. -A.W. Tozer

Rejoice Always


So what can we do when we are feeling anxious, scared, or worried? In everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. (vs 6b)  “In everything” tells us that God cares about all parts of our lives, big and small! There is no request that is unimportant to Him and there is nothing that is impossible for Him! He really wants for us to bring our burdens and cares to Him! This is such a comfort and joy in and of itself, that our Lord as majestic and powerful as He is would care for us on such individual levels.

And we can’t miss this, as we present our prayers and supplications to Him, there is a key component within our requests which is thanksgiving! We should be giving thanks to Him for the things He has already done, for the current trial which is shaping us to be more like Him, and for the wonderful work that we know and expect that He may do in response to our calling upon Him.

A prayerless soul is a Christless soul. Prayer is the lisping of the believing infant, the shout of the fighting believer, the requiem of the dying saint… It is the breath, the watchword, the comfort, the strength, the honor of a Christian. -C. H. Spurgeon

Prayer is so important. Prayer changes everything! We know that God is sovereign, but we can’t be so fixated on God’s sovereignty that we neglect His command for us to bring all things to Him in prayer! Does He know the outcome? Yes. Does He know our need before it ever leaves our lips in prayer to Him? Yes. Did the Holy Spirit through Paul say ‘in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your request be made known to God’? why yes, He did. God does not contradict Himself! If He said pray, then we better pray, don’t you think? I sometimes think about how Jesus knowing full well that He was about to raise Lazarus from the dead for His glory wept. He was right in the moment, mourning with those who mourned. He is with us in our moments of need as a comforter and friend. Does He have a plan? Absolutely. But is He a present help in time of need? Absolutely. Prayer is so key to overcoming anxiety and to rejoicing always. There is a hymn that I absolutely love, “Dear Refuge of my Weary Soul” ,if you have never heard it, then I highly encourage giving it a listen, especially if you are walking through a difficult trial. In this song Anne Steele writes such a beautiful truth in response to the Lord’s sovereignty and pouring out our hearts before Him:

“Hast Thou not bid me seek Thy face,
And shall I seek in vain?
And can the ear of sovereign grace,
Be deaf when I complain?
No still the ear of sovereign grace,
Attends the mourner’s prayer
Oh may I ever find access,
To breathe my sorrows there.”

He attends the mourner’s prayer, that is so sweet to me! This just draws my heart to pray all the more.

Rejoice Always -

The Peace of God

And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.(vs 7) We have an inner peace and tranquility that is based on unwavering confidence that God is able and willing to do what is best for His children. This peace will surpass understanding, it will transcend what our human minds can comprehend. This peace will guard our hearts and minds from fear and anxiety! We have Christ and He is our peace, what more could anyone ask for or need than this great treasure that we have in Him! I find for myself that if I will take my eyes off of myself and my little world around me and lift them up to Jesus, offer praises of adoration to Him, look in the Scripture to see who His Word says He is and then pray to Him and praise Him for it, and think on it all through the day (even just one verse or attribute!) it brings a peace surpasses human logic. We will still walk through difficult times filled with tears and prayers of supplication, but we will have this peace that keeps our hearts steady even in the valleys, trenches, and steep paths of life.

He that hath Christ, being a pauper, hath all things; and he that hath not Christ, possessing a thousand worlds, possesses nothing for real happiness and joy. -C.H. Spurgeon

Hope you have a great week ladies!

In Christ,



Enjoy this post? Pin the photo below to remember and share with friends. Thanks!Rejoicing in the midst of trials or even just in the daily trenches of motherhood can be hard. Come have your heart encouraged to rejoice always in the Lord.

for your further pursuit

  • This book, “The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment” is excellent and is free at Chapel Library. , also in that link is a booklet with a collection of writings from men such as Jonathan Edwards, RC Ryle, AW Pink, and others on the topic of contentment. At Chapel Library you can get a copy sent in the mail or get an ebook copy right away… both are free! Such a cool ministry in general so definitely check them out if you haven’t ever before.
  • This book by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth (affiliate link)
  • This sermon by Albert Martin: “Make Me to Hear Joy and Gladness: That My Broken Bones May Rejoice” 

A Biblical View of Halloween


 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them. -Ephesians 5:11

This post will be long because I want to be thorough. I don’t follow many “good blogging” rules anyway. This post is not meant as a judgement on anyone who celebrates Halloween, but instead I simply desire to present the facts about the day and the Scriptures which address those facts. I pray that they are received in love as I assure you they have prayerfully been written in love. Love for Christ and love for His Church.

I know there are many views and thoughts on Halloween, some are seeking God’s perspective and use Scriptures, while others use the logic of man and try to discern what God is like without the use of Scripture. A quick word of warning, there are many blog posts that begin to surface this time of year from Christians claiming to have the correct perspective on the day; the heart of a true Christ follower should be to find teaching that is rooted in the truth of God’s Word. If the writer does not support their ideas and thoughts with Scripture I would quickly disregard what they are saying. Those posts circulate like wildfire because the flesh likes to hear things like “give out the king size candy bars and don’t give out gospel tracts” and “dressing up kids and trick or treating is a way to love your neighbors”, but you won’t find real Scriptural support for those ideas so just beware. Use discernment,  that is, compare to the Scripture.

You don’t have to agree with me, but I hope you will at least consider the Scriptures and facts about the day that I place forth and consider that God penned these Scriptures by His Spirit through the men He chose, and He has not changed His mind based on our culture. He is the same forever.  If you have an objection to the truths I put forth in this series, please object kindly and with the use of Scripture in its correct context, as we don’t really view the wisdom of the world to be of any value in our decisions concerning anything including holidays.

Facts about Halloween origins:

Halloween origins begin with the Celtic festival of “Samhain”, which comes from the Old Irish for “summer’s end”, it marked the end of the harvest season and beginning of winter or the ‘darker half’ of the year. This time was believed to be when the spirits or fairies  could more easily come into our world and were particularly active. The fairies were both respected and feared (in other words “worshiped”), there were offerings of food and drink, or portions of the crops which were left for them. The souls of the dead were also said to revisit their homes on this day. Places were set at the dinner table or by the fire to welcome them. At the household festivities, there were many rituals and games intended to divine the future of those gathered, especially with regard to death and marriage. Special bonfires were lit and there were rituals involving them. Their flames, smoke and ashes were deemed to have protective and cleansing powers, and were also used for divination. It is suggested that the fires were a kind of imitative magic which mimicked the Sun, helping the “powers of growth” and holding back the decay and darkness of winter. Scholars also believe that the bonfires were used to scare witches of “their awaiting punishment in hell”. “Christian” influence (I will use quotes as this is not in any way shape or form in line with the Bible, but this is what these people who called themselves “Christians” at the time came up with which is just as pagan and false as the Celtic celebration) The Catholic church in 609 established a day known as “All Hallows Eve” or “All Saints Day”, they believed that the souls were passing from purgatory to heaven. This created a superstition and fear that the souls would use this time to take vengeance on their enemies, so many would dress in costume so as to not be recognized by them. They prayed to the dead saints, and prayed for the souls that were still trying to reach heaven. They also lit fires which they believed would guide these souls to heaven. It should be noted that this does not make Halloween a Christian Holiday, it has nothing to do with Hallowing God and everything to do with Hallowing Souls which is completely unBiblical. This was thankfully cleared up in the Reformation as false teaching, that there was no such thing as purgatory, this was simply a made up place in which the Catholic church would collect money from the loved ones of the dead based upon the pope’s false teachings that they could buy their loved ones’ souls out of purgatory and get them to heaven. (it was a money making scheme that had no Biblical basis) Later these two holidays meshed and were celebrated in many countries for centuries. The superstitions and celebrations grew. One addition to the holiday which came later was the story of the Jack O’ Lantern:

On route home after a night’s drinking, Jack encounters the Devil who tricks him into climbing a tree. A quick-thinking Jack etches the sign of the cross into the bark, thus trapping the Devil. Jack strikes a bargain that Satan can never claim his soul. After a life of sin, drink, and mendacity, Jack is refused entry to heaven when he dies. Keeping his promise, the Devil refuses to let Jack into hell and throws a live coal straight from the fires of hell at him. It was a cold night, so Jack places the coal in a hollowed out turnip to stop it from going out, since which time Jack and his lantern have been roaming looking for a place to rest. (Wikipedia)

As this folk story grew in popularity, people would carve demonic faces in pumpkins for protection over their household from evil spirits. I used the Britannica Online Encyclopedia and Wikipedia to gain this information.

Some people have tried to tell me that the Church had a hand in the origins of Halloween and therefore it must be permissible for Christians, but the truth is that the Roman Catholic Church (not THE Church, the body of Christ) decided to adopt and merge with the Samhain religion. They have always been and still are very ecumenical, it’s dangerous and unChristian.

You are welcome to do your own research, but this is basically what you will find. I have tried to simplify it as much as possible.

Facts about Halloween as it is celebrated today:

I don’t need an encyclopedia for this, and neither do you. Simply look around the stores and see what kinds of things are sold for the celebration of Halloween. Walk through the neighborhoods and see the decorations in front lawns portraying what this celebration is about. You will likely find a wide range of things from friendly looking ghosts with white wispy sheets and smiling faces alongside friendly looking witches with green faces, pointed hats, and smiling faces all the way to dead looking skeletons, demonic looking masks, devil horns, and tombstones. Whether these things look cute and friendly or horrific they still have one common thread. They are evil things. They are a glorification of spirits, demons, the dead, and those who conjure up demons and the dead. There’s nothing cute about that really. God’s Word certainly would not define those things as cute or innocent and fun traditions. 

Still a holiday for witches today:

Another thing to consider is that Halloween is still an active holiday for witches and Satan worshipers. It is also still a day that many from the Roman-Catholic Church pray to and worship the dead, which is against the Scripture.

From an article you may find here written by a practicing witch:

For your Samhain, try one or more of these rituals:

  • Think of the candy you give to young trick-or-treaters as offerings to the ancestors, who return as the children of a new generation. Imagine that with each treat, you also give a blessing.
  • Gather your friends and family and set out pictures of your beloved dead. Light a candle (perhaps in a jack-o-lantern), then tell their stories and give thanks for what they’ve given you. Gaze into the candle flame, envisioning the renewal you want to support in your own life, community, and the world. Share your visions, write or draw them, or set out objects on your altar that represent the rebirth you hope for.
  • Share food and leave a bit of each dish on the altar (or outside, near the compost) as an offering for the ancestors.Halloween is a time when powerful forces converge. Our most sacred holiday is also, unfortunately, the time when anti-witch propaganda may abound.I believe the way to respond to fear and misinformation is to tell the truth about what we do. Halloween gives us a great opportunity to educate the public by speaking at your child’s school or giving an interview to the local press. In 25 years of public life as a witch, what amazes me is not the prejudice I’ve encountered, but how many open and supportive people I’ve met.


Time for an honest evaluation of what Halloween is actually about (then and now):

Here is a look at a conversation I had with my daughter when she was 5 years old concerning the ghosts and witches on display in the yards as we went on our regular afternoon stroll. I try to be very honest with my children about things and to make sure that my answers to their questions line up with Scripture (I don’t always do this perfectly, but it is what I strive for):

daughter- What are those suppose to be? (pointing to the friendly smiling faced, not at all scary Halloween decorations in one of the yards)

me- The white one is representing a ghost and the green one with the pointed hat is representing a witch.

daughter- Are they real?

me- These are just made to look like things that are real. They are ghost and witch decorations, not the real thing. The Bible tells us about the Holy Ghost, which is God who is with us right now and convicts us of our sin and helps us to understand the Gospel of Jesus, and who helps us overcome sin and be a witness to the world. The Bible also tells us about other Spirits, remember Jesus and the apostles casting out evil spirits? (these are stories we’ve read together many times) Satan and the other angels that fell with him from heaven are those other spirits, and they are also called demons in the Bible. (we have talked about Satan and where he came from before, so this is a bit of review for her). But you know that we don’t need to be afraid of them because Jesus has power over them and has overcome them. And witches we have talked about before, they call on those spirits or demons and worship them in order to get power from them. But again, we don’t need to fear them either because Jesus has all power over the demons and those that worship them.

daughter- Why do these people have these in their yard? Do they worship Satan? (seriously friends, I did not coax this question, we haven’t yet talked a lot about Halloween, and this was completely her own speculations based on the honest answer I gave her to the questions she asked.)

me- I don’t think that these people mean to worship Satan by putting these things out in their yard, but these are the things that represent him. So in a way, unknowingly,  sadly, yes, they are.

If my 5 year old can see that these things are evil when presented with the Biblical facts about what these things represent, then anyone can, right? Anyone can see what the holiday of Halloween is about today, as well as what it was about years ago. It’s about the dead, ghost, divination, witchcraft, sorcery, demons, vampires, etc….  Are these things to be celebrated by a follower of Christ??? Are these things that Jesus would celebrate??? Many people will say “we do Halloween” or “we participate in the traditions like costumes and trick or treat”, but let’s call this what it is…. you are celebrating this holiday in the same actions and dress as many of the pagans who originally started the holiday, and you are celebrating just like the rest of the world does today. So I ask again, Should Christians be celebrating these things?

Ask yourself, what am I celebrating on that day?

What the Bible says about the things Halloween celebrates:

“When you enter the land which the Lord your God gives you, you shall not learn to imitate the detestable things of those nations. 10 There shall not be found among you anyone who makes his son or his daughter pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices witchcraft, or one who interprets omens, or a sorcerer, 11 or one who casts a spell, or a medium, or a spiritist, or one who calls up the dead. 12 For whoever does these things is detestable to the Lord; and because of these detestable things the Lord your God will drive them out before you. 13 You shall be blameless before the Lord your God. 14 For those nations, which you shall dispossess, listen to those who practice witchcraft and to diviners, but as for you, the Lord your God has not allowed you to do so. -Deuteronomy 18:9-14

This is the only Old Testament verse I will use as there are plenty to be found in the New Testament, but I do feel it is important to see God’s opinion on the very things that Halloween is about. This may be the Old Testament is a wonderful place to learn the things the Lord detests: some of those are witchcraft, divination, and sorcery. He did not allow His people to participate in those things. God is the same today, if He had changed His opinion on magic arts, sorcery, and divination then we would not have seen the people in the New Testament burning their magic books when they were converted. (Acts 19:19)

You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons; you cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons. 22 Or do we provoke the Lord to jealousy? We are not stronger than He, are we? -1 Corinthians 10:21-22

Here we see in the New Testament that nothing has changed, it is still evil in the sight of the Lord to partake of things of demons. If you have knowledge that something is evil (and with Halloween you do!) then you should not participate in it in the way that the pagans and witches do.

 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. 7 Therefore do not be partakers with them; 8 for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light 9 (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth),10 trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; 12 for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. -Ephesians 5:6-12

Let’s not be deceived by “church culture” which doesn’t address Halloween with Scripture! We were once in darkness, but not anymore! We should not be participating in unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead exposing them. And while I realize many are sick of Halloween posts, for me personally, if the post is Biblical and true then I view it as a good thing! We as Christians should be exposing the darkness and calling Christians to act like people of light even as it pertains to Halloween!

 But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; 22 abstain from every form of evil. -1 Thessalonians 5:21-22

God has called us all to examine things carefully in light of God’s Word, and abstain from every form of evil. Since we know that Halloween has evil origins and is celebrated in evil ways today, why would we believe it to be acceptable in the sight of the Lord to take part in? He has said abstain.

 Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15 Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? 16 Or what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; just as God said,

“I will dwell in them and walk among them; And I will be their God, and they shall be My people. 17 “Therefore, come out from their midst and be separate,” says the Lord. “And do not touch what is unclean; And I will welcome you. 18 “And I will be a father to you, And you shall be sons and daughters to Me,” Says the Lord Almighty. -2 Corinthians 6: 14-18

We are not to be yoked with the world in the ways they partake in this day! We are not to be yoked with witches and those who practice Wicca on this day.  We are to be set apart! Christ does not have harmony with evil, and we know that full well.

 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. 17 For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. 19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, 21 envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24 Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. -Galatians 5:16-23

Shortly after that well-known verse on freedom that I use to quote out of context years ago as my ticket to do whatever I wanted, we find an explanation that we do have freedom from the burden of the law which we cannot keep, but that freedom is given so we can now live by the Spirit and to put to death the deeds of our flesh. Take a look at that list of deeds of the flesh, some of them definitely pertain to Halloween: idolatry, sorcery, sensuality (which is seeking pleasure for your senses). We see that those who practice those things will not enter the Kingdom. Now I know we will struggle against our flesh, but it is a far different thing to “practice” the deeds of the flesh. Choosing to celebrate a holiday year after year that is evil definitely falls into the category of “practicing”, this is a planned thing that you do. And whether you know the truth about the day and what God’s Word says or not, sin is still sin. We have been given His Word and all the more will be held accountable to live by it. Walking by the Spirit doesn’t mean that you get to decide what is good and evil in your own eyes, it means that you walk in accordance with what the Spirit has given us through His Word.

How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked,
Nor stand in the path of sinners,
Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!
2 But his delight is in the law of the Lord,
And in His law he meditates day and night. -Psalm 1:1-2

It is a blessing to not do as the wicked do, to not even be standing in their path. It is a blessing when our delight is in the law of the Lord, when we would much rather know and live by what is in God’s Word than by the wisdom of the world or by our own thoughts and opinions. It is a blessing and it leads to life to follow that narrow path, but we must also be aware that there is a broad way which leads to destruction. We should not try to see how close to the broad way we can walk without actually stepping fully off of the narrow path. We are clearly called to avoid the path of the wicked: don’t sit, stand, or walk there. It’s not a place to hang out, even for one night.

But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” -Revelation 21:8

When we look at the holiday we see clearly that the practice of our current culture is celebrating sorcery, mimicking idolatrous worship of the dead and of demons, and is largely about provoking fear and causing people to be cowards-to be afraid of things which God has full dominion over. Does it look like He is celebrating those things in this passage in Revelation? If this is His response to these things, what would He want His followers response to be on this day that celebrates these things? ‘Celebrate with the pagans’…. You know that’s not the right answer. He has a much more excellent plan for us! Let’s go on and look at that now. And how very unloving to embrace these things and lead the lost to believe that God embraces them as well. We are called to be set apart, and it is not unloving to be set apart.

A Christian Response to Halloween:

 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. -Romans 12:21

Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. -Romans 12:9

Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. -3 John 1:11

If you have read all things previous in this series, then you are now able to fully identified what is evil about October 31st, so now how can we respond with what is good? We see this pattern in Scripture, not to just avoid evil, but to do good!!!

What should we do on October 31st?

1. Proclaim His excellencies because He has called us out of darkness and into His marvelous light!

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. -1 Peter 2:9

How can we honor Christ on this day? We should seek to honor Him every day, and this day is not an exception! We do not get a free pass to be unconcerned with the glory of Christ and honoring Him as Lord simply because it is a holiday. We are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation,  a people for his own possession…. this is amazing! He called us out of darkness (even the darkness that we use to participate in on this particular day) and into his marvelous light, and why? That we may proclaim the excellencies of Him!

2. Be alert and aware that Spiritual warfare is real, and that Satan desires our destruction and the destruction of our children.

Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. -1 Peter 5:8

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. -Ephesians 6:12

We do not need to stick our heads in the sand or pretend like this isn’t happening around the world on this night. Wiccans are doing rituals in worship to demons. People are delighting in darkness and evil. People are looking for and searching out spirits (and if they find any it can only be one thing, demonic). People are imitating demonic spirits to insight fear in others, and other people are paying to experience those things at haunted houses and watching haunted films. People are unknowingly partaking in these acts of worship to Satan that have been handed down to us from those who worshiped and feared the spirits all the way back in the early Celtic days of this celebration.  Among these are Christians who are greatly deceived by a church culture that falsely preaches theories of relativism (“whatever is right for you is right for you, whatever is right for me is right for me”), instead of the fact that there is only ONE TRUTH and that is defined by God Himself in His Word. Think of the laugh that Satan and the powers of darkness must get at God’s followers on this day who are unknowingly participating in things that are acts of worship to Him both in the past and now. Praise the Lord, He may think He is winning something, but the Lord is mighty in battle and has already defeated Him, and there is an appointed day for Satan’s certain doom. Do not be too discouraged by this, rest assured that God Almighty will have the last laugh.

3. Do not be fearful, but instead walk in love and self-control on this day.

For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. -2 Timothy 1:7

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. -1 John 4:18

This may seem contradictory to the previous point, but it isn’t. Having knowledge of Satan and His schemes should not invoke fear in us. As I stated previously, God has overcome all evil! He is sovereign over all things! I think this needs to be said because there are people with fears of the powers of darkness, and friends you should not fear them! Did you know that fear is a form of worship? We are to fear the Lord, and Him alone because He has all power and authority and everything is under His feet.

However concerning “fearfulness and Christians”, I’m not going to make a generalization like I’ve heard far too many other bloggers on the topic of Halloween do. So many bloggers and people who discuss Christians who abstain from the pagan traditions of Halloween do so as if we are fearful people, like we are locked up in our houses hiding out from the devil and all his little “evil trick-or-treaters”. Can I just be frank here? I have never met a believer who is faithful to God’s Word, and abiding in Christ that is fearful of these things! And I know plenty of people including my own family who do not celebrate Halloween as the world does. You are welcome to leave all of your preconceptions about Christians who don’t celebrate Halloween right here! We’re not fearful of Satan or demons, and definitely not fearful of trick-or-treaters and shivering mothers….. We are however walking in a very healthy fear of the Lord who has given us His Word to guide us in this day, and that is why we have chosen to respond to this day the way that we do. Do not wrongly assume that Christians choosing to honor the Lord on this day are fearful when, if anyone ever actually talked to us about it instead of casting judgement and making assumptions, they would see we clearly are not! (and yes I am addressing posts that have circulated the internet for years, and many of you know which ones I am addressing, some of these even come from reputable and fabulous Gospel preaching sites, but unfortunately those particular writers made some wrong assumptions about Christians being fearful, and my blog is a no-name blog compared to them, but I still feel it is right to set that straight among my tiny sphere of influence.)

4. Love God and Love people.

 And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. 38 This is the great and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. -Matthew 22:37-39

Loving God:

We love God with all of our hearts and all of our souls and with all of our minds when we seek to understand what this day is about, find out what God’s Word says about it, obey, and walk in the Spirit, abiding in Him, worshiping and delighting in Him, and being fully satisfied in Him…. He is more than enough, and we can count the things of this world loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Him! Even fun little things, like cute costumes or the more difficult things like our kids feeling a little left out or like our being persecuted for our decision not to partake in the deeds of darkness as commanded in Scripture, those things are just rubbish compared to Him! Furthermore, about that persecution, Jesus says:

“Blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of Me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, for your reward in heaven is great; for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.-Matthew 5:11-12

Loving people:

Now many get confused about what love is, especially when they start thinking of loving their neighbor, and they assume without looking at the Scriptures that the most loving thing we can do is to say trite and shallow things and never share any truth. They assume that doing what they do to make them feel comfortable is right. I mentioned this above. It’s actually very unloving to act like God is at peace with these evil things and that we are permitted to do them. Some of those same bloggers that I addressed above will suggest: hand out the big candy, tell all the kids they look so cute! Offer the moms some water. Don’t give out tracts!” And then what, hope someone happens to discover that you have the most valuable truth that is known to man. This is a lie from Satan, that is not love, that is hate! The most loving thing you can do for people is to tell them about the most wonderful news that there ever was or ever will be, and that is the Gospel! That Jesus died for their sins, bore their wrath, died on the cross and rose from the dead, breaking the curse the law had on them, if they will repent of their sins, believe in Him, and serve Him as Lord, they will be saved! There is no better news. There is not a more loving thing you can say to anyone. Now on the flip side, don’t be trite with the Gospel, giving out tracts like you don’t care whether they are read or not.  NO, these are people! These are souls that will exist for eternity in heaven or in hell, and they should be valued as such. Love them well! Tell them about the way, the truth, and the life!

5. Make disciples.

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”-Matthew 28:17-20

October 31st is a great day to fulfill this very commandment! Every day is, but this day particularly has everyone out of their houses and doing something. Not to mention, their minds are already on spiritual things because this really is what the holiday is about, what an opportunity to easily take the conversation over from the dark spiritual focus, to the light of Christ Jesus! This is a great opportunity for many.

6. Train your children in the way they should go.

Train up a child in the way he should go,
Even when he is old he will not depart from it. -Proverbs 22:6

Bear in mind that you are training your child, especially on holidays. These will be the lasting memories for children. They may not remember much from the day to day, but they remember what they did on holidays. These are lasting memories you will leave with your child. Therefore, this is a fantastic opportunity to sew some really good seed! It is very likely that your child will remember what you do on this day simply because the day is different than all the others. Make it special for them; create your own traditions, you are not called to be like the world, you are called to something more excellent, so be that! Make your time together meaningful, and most importantly, disciple them in the truth of God’s Word.

When your children are old enough and mature enough to understand, teach them the facts about Halloween, about it’s origins and about the ways it is celebrated by those who practice Wicca today. Share with them how many Christians are deceived. Encourage your children to have grace for these people, but also to share the truth with them in love. Teach them the Scriptures that speak to this day, many are listed here in this post, and there are many others.

Parents, be aware of the atmosphere you place your child in on this night. You will need to use discernment to decide what you should do on this night as far as the Great Commission is concerned. There are many places that my husband and I could serve and witness that we would not bring our young children to. If your child is a fruit bearing, born again believer in Christ that fully understands what this day is and what will be going on, then that child may be ready to join you on this day in fulfilling the Great Commission. You will need to prayerfully discern, and be ready to leave any given situation at any time if you feel it is at all spiritually dangerous for your child. If it is causing them to have doubts, if it is causing them to be fearful, or if it is causing them to be persuaded to join in with the partakers of the darkness then it. is. time. to. go! Talk about it at home, flee from evil! I’ve left many things before, and will do it again. I was given to my children by God to be their protector and to train them up in Him, and I take that job very seriously. You should too. In my current season of life I have found that my best work is by being home with them and teaching, training, and discipling them like I do on other days. We like to celebrate Reformation Day as a family or with friends. I share more about that here.

7. Flip this holiday on its head!

As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result, to preserve many people alive. -Genesis 50:20

In Joesph’s response to the evil that his brothers meant for him, we see something miraculous! That what humans meant for evil, God meant it for good in order to bring about the saving of many people from the famine. In the same way, let us join together in praying that God will take this day that is meant for evil, and use it for His good purposes to save many from perishing! Be fervent in prayer for the Lord to move, be purposeful in how you will spend your time on this day of opportunity to reach so many, and be a diligent worker. Don’t use this day as day to fulfill your selfish desires, be a servant of the Lord, be about His Kingdom on this day!

  1. honor as holy.

Hallowing God above all because He is the one to be honored as holy! Not the dead, not saints, not spirits, not our children, not our trick-or-treaters, not our perceived freedoms, not our right to our own opinion, not self-righteousness, not what people think of us, not anything else except:

Hallowing the one and only who deserves to be Hallowed! 

Blessings to you and your family on October 31st as you seek to honor and serve our great King and Master, Jesus Christ!

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Simple Homemaking Routines

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I need routine, otherwise things fall apart. And I need simple, otherwise my plans will completely fail. I finally feel like I have found that sweet spot of homemaking routines that work for me. I have tried many versions of this type of thing, but my current version is actually functional for us. I thought I would share as inspiration. It is highly likely that my exact routine will not be the best fit for you, because mine fits my life and family. However, I do believe it can inspire you with some fresh ideas to revamp your own routines if they aren’t currently working for you

Three tips for putting together simple homemaking routines that work.

  1. Create simple routines that you do each morning, afternoon, and evening.
  2. Assign yourself certain areas of focus for each day of the week.
  3. Make it something you can actually do. It’s always better to under-plan that to over-plan.

Using those three tips, here is how our homemaking routines break down.

Daily Homemaking Routine

-my personal Scripture meditation and prayer
-get dressed
-breakfast and Bible with kids
-breakfast cleanup (everyone helps)
-make my bed & tidy bedroom
-get everyone dressed
-a quick tidy around the house
-oversee kid morning chores
-set out my daughters’ laundry baskets to fold (except for CC days)
-homeschool (Wednesdays we deep clean then start school)
-lunch and lunch cleanup (everyone helps)

-rest time (kids) / my Bible loop
-finish homeschool
-assign chores for girls that correlate with our daily focus or other jobs that need to be done
-focus on my daily task in 15 to 20 minute increments at the least
-dinner prep/cook
-tidy living areas (all the children help)
-put all folded laundry away

-dinner (goal time is 5:30 or 6)
-dinner cleanup (everyone helps)
-quick house tidy
-prep for the next day

My Daily Focus Areas


I try to do a deep scrub mop once a week and the other days I swiffer or wipe up messes with a rag as I see them. I do this at different times on Monday, basically whenever I can work it in. If the kids are outside playing, then I will mop or sometimes I wait and do it in the evening after they are laid down. As long as it gets done on Monday I try not to stress about when. I’ve learned that too much detail in a schedule sets me up for failure, but that’s just my personality and possibly my current season of life with many littles.

TUESDAY- tidy and organize

I have a running list of areas I’d like to focus on. I usually do the most bothersome and noticeable things first, then move to cabinets and closets and places people don’t see. I don’t organize everything on my list, just usually an area or two; and I pick up where I left off the next week. I also try to enlist the help of my oldest three children for some of these projects. They can do simple jobs like: pull all of the cleaners and scrub brushes out from the kitchen sink so I can see them, get rid of what we don’t need, and organize them properly. I also have them pull all the items that may have collected under the couches and beds out to the middle of the floor and to put the items away in their place. Sometimes I assign an organization project to my 8 or 7 year old if it is something that I can’t get to, but it needs attention. I know it will look better than it will with noone organizing it, even if it isn’t quite the way I would have done it. Plus I think it is good practice for them to learn how to categorize and organize various areas of a home. Their afternoon chores are not a routine, they are assigned tasks given by me that change each day based on our family’s needs. Typically I assign their afternoon chores to correlate with my daily focus.

WEDNESDAY- home blessing day

This is our house cleaning day. I dust, clean mirrors and windows, and focus on trouble areas. My older girls each clean a bathroom; they are responsible for changing the trash bag, washing the toilets, tub/shower walls and shelves, and sinks. We run a robot vacuum while we do these things all over our house. When the vacuum is done they each get a swiffer and clean the floors in the living room, bathrooms, and bedrooms. We don’t take food outside of the dining room or kitchen so these aren’t usually too messy, a swiffer does just fine with it. We try to do this in about an hour to an hour and a half. With all of us working together we usually get it. We currently do this set of tasks in the mornings because we have help with the little ones on Wednesday mornings which makes our cleaning go a lot faster. It feels worth it to me to knock out the house cleaning at once instead of breaking up small tasks to each day. We play worship music and try to make it enjoyable, and my girls usually love this time.

THURSDAY- clean out the car and tidy outside

Thursdays are currently our Classical Conversations days, so this works well for us. When we get home I have my girls get all the stuff out of the van and I oversee it to make sure they are being thorough. Some weeks we stop at a car wash with vacuums and get it nice and cleaned up on our way hone from CC. That usually happens about once a month. Outside I just go around picking up toys or any trash, and of course I have the kids help. Then I or someone (as an afternoon assigned chore) will sweep the decks if they need it.

FRIDAY- laundry focus

We aim to do about 2 loads of laundry every day except Sunday and CC days which are currently Thursdays for us. Also days with doctor appointments or play dates throw us off from time to time. Typically I have my two oldest daughters fold a full basket each morning as part of their morning chores, this is the folding of the two loads washed the day prior. (I will post their chores below). I usually have the baskets separated into either adult clothes, big girl clothes, or todder and baby clothes. I try to wash them in those categories as well, and everything is on cold (I don’t worry about colors). I put their folded clothes away and handle all the family hang ups. This usually keeps our laundry at a manageable level. On Fridays my focus is washing any extras that need it: towels, rags, sheets, catching up if I’m behind, and so on. I also aim to get as caught up as possible so that our weekend can be more relaxed. (Laundry piles tend to stress me and they happen oh so quickly around here.) On Fridays the older girls do their laundry as usual and I do the extra, but sometimes giving out a laundry pertaining job here or there as an afternoon chore, such as asking them to fold and put away towels, watching/ playing with littles while I work laundry, or to help me put sheets on a bunk bed (because that is always a challenge when pregnant!) If something needs mending or ironed then this is the day for that as well.

SATURDAY- meal plan and grocery shop

I know, I know, Saturdays are probably the worst day to be at the grocery store, but they are truly the day that works best for our schedule. I use to do errand day with my four girls on a week day, but I’ve seen how much I lose momentum in my homeschooling and homemaking when we have another week-day out of the house (we already have our CC community day), so I decided to move errand day to Saturday. The added bonus to this is that my husband is usually home on Saturdays so either we all go together or he watches some or all of the kids for me. I currently alternate each week between Kroger and Aldi. I buy what I need for two weeks from each of the places since Aldi has better prices, but Kroger carries things I need that Aldi doesn’t currently carry. My Kroger weeks are usually much smaller since I try to get almost everything from Aldi.

SUNDAY- I do not plan a daily focus. I like to set aside this day to rest and seek the Lord and to fellowship with other believers.

My Girls’ Daily Chores

(They are 8 and 6)

{Morning Chores}
-Get fully dressed.
-Make your bunk bed (top and bottom, they make their little sisters’ for them)
-Tidy your bedroom, bathroom, and closet.
-Look around the house for your things- put them away.
-Feed and water the goats and pig.
-Fold your basket of laundry.

{Afternoon Chores}
-Ask mom- daily task focus.

{Evening Chores}
-Tidy living areas
-Shower, pjs, bedtime routine.

They are expected to help with clean up after every single meal. One girl clears and wipes tables and high chairs, the other sweeps the floor, and sometimes I have one of them empty the dishwasher during that time. Preschool and toddler age either play or get a rag and wipe something down to “help”.

I can honestly say my two oldest girls are a HUGE HELP to me. I believe they should have these responsibilities and that they are learning valuable life-skills and self-discipline; and truthfully I could not manage this house well without delegating some of the work to them. It simply wouldn’t be possible. I do try to keep it to only this and their school though because I desire for them to get time to play, explore our farm, and pursue their interests.

So that’s it.

So that is what my current simple homemaking routine looks like. I love having the routine to keep me focused on the right thing at the right time. Without this I have a tendency to try to do everything at once and to get so overwhelmed. This frees me up to accomplish what needs to be accomplished and then to be present with more important things in my life without feeling like I should be doing something else. There is a peace of mind in knowing, I’ll get to that then (at the time set aside in the routine) so I can focus completely on doing this (whatever that happens to be) now.

This probably seems like a lot, and maybe it doesn’t seem so simple to some, but for me this is as simplified as I can make it to meet the standards I desire for our household and the demands of caring for a growing family. I feel like working in and managing the home is a part of the work the Lord has given to me (Titus 2:5 Proverbs 31:27), and so I want to pursue doing it well.

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Happy Homemaking ladies!

DIY Picnic Farmhouse Table (no building required)


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Super simple diys are kinda my thing…. mainly because I’m not all that crafty, and I don’t have tons of free time either. I am convinced that every easy peasy diy has a story behind it, well here is the story behind this one. We had been needing another table for quite some time, I was dreaming of a farmhouse style table, but I had more of a craigslist budget to work with. My husband is certainly handy enough to build one, but he is already double loaded with projects. Adding a table to the list just wasn’t an option. I literally prayed about this, I’m learning to pray for things we need and to wait on the Lord to provide the right thing or idea. I had been shopping craigslist and many other options, but the right fit had not come along. I had found a simple farmhouse table with benches for about $600 a few hours away, but the drive really detoured me and so did the price. I also was concerned about the benches tipping over, and I pointed out to my husband that I would love for them to somehow be attached. Then it happened, we passed a Lowe’s and spotted these $98 wooden picnic tables out front. My wheels began turning….. what if we bought one of those, sanded it and stained it and brought it in the house. And that is just what we did! We ended up spending about $120 on the table, and putting in about 4 hours total. I couldn’t be happier with the result! I just love our picnic farmhouse table!

DIY Details:
We used an electric hand sander like this one. (aff link) This was a must because there were definitely some rough places that could cause splinters. We sanded all of it pretty generously.
After the sanding, we put on 2 coats of Poly Shades stain (aff link) which is a stain and polyurethane in one. It’s always nice to kill two birds with one stone. The shade we used was “honey pine”, and it is linked above, but there are more color options available. I loved this product! We got a beautiful natural wood shade and it was sealed well so I could wipe the table down when it got dirty, every single day. ;) We left the bottom of the wood unstained since the wood will be drying out as time goes by, we didn’t want to trap water inside.

This table is already well-loved, and holding up well.

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Suffice it to say this may be the easiest and cheapest way to get the farmhouse table look. And really, I LOVE that the benches are connected to the table because our dining room clean up is SO much easier than when we had a bunch of chairs to move around. We’ve also seen when guests come over that we can pile tons of people (especially little ones) on these benches. I even think that two of these could be attached to each other to make a really long farmhouse table, which we may have to attempt if our family keeps growing.

So if you’re in a pinch and need a new table, I hope this idea can help your family!

Have a blessed day!


The Pursuit of Minimalism : Part 2

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Did you miss Part One of this series? Here it is. 

This is a bit overdue. Homeschooling mom life happened… oh and stomach bugs, and playdates, and fellowship, and meal planning, and you know how it goes. But here I am so let’s talk about this again. Last time I wrote about minimalism, I shared my story of pursuing minimalism and how it has drastically changed my life for the better. I shared the Scripture that inspired me down this path, and a few of the practical ways that I went about that. I’m very much still in the process, I’m not where I want to be but I’m well on my way, and way better than I have ever been before at being in control of our things. I wanted to come back to the topic to share a few other thoughts as well as a few more practical outworkings as to “how” to go about this pursuit. Although I think there are many ways to accomplish it, I will share how I went about it.

 Pursuing Practicals

When I finally caught the vision for minimizing, I began to hear of a book that was gaining popularity at the time and so I bought and read the book. You’ve probably heard of it, ” The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up” by Marie Kondo. I’ll just speak candidly, I did not care for the book at all. She’s very new age in her philosophies and has some major quirks that actually weren’t endearing (as some reviewers describe them), but rather seemed superstitious and weird.She tells people to talk to their things, set them free, etc…. she talks about how many things to put in your shrine and how long the charms have luck or power. Yeah, not my cup of tea, hopefully it isn’t yours either. However the basic concept of how to sift through things and decide what to keep and what to get rid of resonated with me…. and I began to get an idea of the “how”, eventhough I didn’t fully agree with her philosophies, ideas, or even her methods. The idea of keeping things I actually *really* liked and needed was a good concept to be able to grasp through her descriptions of various clients and the things they had to process through keeping or not. As I said before, I didn’t care for her method much either…. her recommended process (which she believes is the one and only way to really go about it) is definitely more fitting for a single person or maybe a person with 2 kids tops. It is just impractical to pile all your books, clothes, etc in the middle of the floor when you have many little people about. Trust a voice of regretful experience, if you want order in your house, do not put all of your things in the middle of the floor to be sorted, I repeat do not. ;) If your littles are normal kinds of kids who can make toys of anything, your pile will just become the coolest new thing to ransack and your house will be an even bigger mess than when you started. I recommend finding an off limits (to children) room or area to sort things in.

Kondo says don’t do things by area, but instead by category and personally I disagree. I did my sorting by area and it worked great. It was very logical to me. Bathroom closet, under the sink, kitchen, and so on…. I tried to pick some one day projects and then would take a break and pick a week long project. I simply took everything out and put back ONLY what I wanted to have in that space, if it didn’t fit and didn’t belong somewhere else that I could put it away, then I got rid of it. Even if it was useful or neat or whatever our random reasons are for keeping things that don’t fit in our homes. I still got rid of it if I could not find a place for it. I have a small house and a lot of people, I was insanely picky. I have gotten rid of 5 trailer loads full of stuff to donate, more random trips to donate here and there, and even more to a burn pile. I used the method I shared back in November. It worked for me, I feel like it would work for anyone who is ready to let go of the junk.

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Here are a few of the ways that I maintain, and do not allow myself to become a minimalist backslider. This is such a wonderful way to live, and I’m determined not to go back to my old ways.

I have changed the way that I shop big time! I don’t buy things just because they are on sale or look neat or fun to have around. I try to be very intentional with all of my purchases. This has a double blessing, it keeps clutter down and we save lots of money. When I buy things for my kids for birthdays or special occassions, I either get them big items that I know they need and will use (like a bike or a new pair of shoes or a camera) or I buy them a crafty type thing that they can use once, keep for a few weeks, and then throw away.

I get rid of a few things each week. I have become hyper sensitive to things that are wasting time and space in my house. A few examples: I wore a shirt a few days ago, and at the end of the day I thought to myself, ” I always dislike wearing this shirt, it doesn’t fit right and it’s uncomfortable.” I washed it and added it to my donate bag. Easy peasy, now that’s one less piece of clothing to clutter my closet, and one less shirt that will bother me when I wear it. Often times if I put on an dress, top, or bottom and decide I don’t want to wear it, then I just put it in the donate bag. If I don’t like it, then there is no sense in keeping it.  I also recently cleared off my deep freezer where some random decor and vases had collected, I couldn’t find a place for them (although I did really like them) but I just donated them. It will bless someone else, and I don’t have the space. For me ultimately it has been about not being greedy and loving my things too much. I only want to keep the things I actually want or need in my life. Keeping a shirt I don’t like just because I bought it for $20 last summer is just silly. I wouldn’t pay $1 for it now, so why keep it? If I don’t like or need an item or have space for an item, not being able to let go of it only indicates a heart problem concerning my things. I just remind myself that we as Christians are not to love the things of the world…. yes that applies to a variety of sinful behaviors, but materialism is definitely one of them, I believe. If you are controlled by your things and can’t “give them up” then I truly believe you should examine your heart to make sure you aren’t loving the things of the world too much, and remember that love for the world is enmity with God. We can not have a whole-hearted pursuit of living for the Lord when our earthly belongings have such a strong hold on us.


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Christian Minimalism

This brings me to a few quick thoughts. Minimalism is a huge buzz-word right now. It means a lot of different things to a lot of different people.I talked about this in my last post too, but I’m going to put even more words around it because I think it’s important. I want to distinguish what I am pursuing by adding the word Christian before it, because this is not for some selfish gain like having a perfect home or traveling the world fulfilling the lust of the flesh and the pride of life.

Christian Minimalism is getting rid of anything that hinders you from walking in full obedience to Jesus.

Here are some examples how this can play out:

If you are married, then by default you are a keeper of your home and should keep it orderly. That is a part of walking obediently to the Lord in that role.

If you are a mother, then you by default are teaching little ones how to live a life of order because God is a God of order and purpose and He calls His people to walk in this way as well.

That is not to say your house won’t get messy! Please don’t hear that! But it needs to be at a level you can maintain and tidy up each day. My house gets used and messy every day…. we dirty dishes, we fill trash cans, we pull out toys and books and homeschooling materials…. every single day. And that isn’t counting special projects. But every single day (unless there is an extenuating circumstance, such as sickness or a new baby, etc…), we do what is necessary to bring it all to order. My older girls and I have morning, afternoon, and evening chores which keep things pulled together. But to keep things at that maintenance level, I have to make sure everything has a place and can be easily put away and we just can’t have tons of stuff to have to deal with. So you can see how getting rid of things that don’t have a place and that won’t be used or loved has enabled me to more obediently walk in my roles as wife, keeper of the home, and teacher to my children on orderly living.

Another huge blessing is that when I sit down to spend time with the Lord my house is not always beckoning me to clean it as it once did in the past. I am finally able to focus on what matters most. I treasure being able to come to the Lord with the heart of Mary and not Martha, that alone makes this pursuit so worthwhile!

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Furthermore when I sit down to read to my children or to home school or to have a conversation with my husband, I am not constantly thinking about the endless piles of things that need to be addressed. I know that we have a schedule and I know that we will get to the duties that need to be done at the next chore time. I finally do not have to worry about what I will do with *that* huge pile of things that I just can’t ever seem to get cleaned up. Thankfully, those piles don’t exist anymore, and it is SO freeing!

You can do it too!

This probably sounds too good to be true. I know two to five years ago it would have sounded that way to me as well, and perhaps even a bit insane, if I’m really honest. I know what it’s like to live with clutter and to keep trying to organize it and clean it up to no avail. I know what it’s like to have a pile of things you feel like you have to or need to keep, but having no clue where to put any of those things. I know what it’s like to feel like a failure as a homemaker, and to keep wondering what it is that could fix the problem. But I promise you this is doable. It isn’t a quick fix, and it does take work. And it definitely takes intentionality! Begin to work diligently at de-cluttering various spaces in your home and you will begin to notice almost instantaneous difference in your daily workload. The project mode can be hard because at the time it is extra work, but when you finish that project is when you begin to reap the rewards. And don’t stop with one or two projects, be intent on de-cluttering every part of your home. It didn’t get this way overnight and it won’t be changed overnight, but if you will diligently pursue minimalism you will eventually get there. And I have no doubt that it will revolutionize your homemaking forever.

So there’s part 2. And I’m sure more on this topic will come in the future. Hope it helps!


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The Pursuit of Minimalism : Part 1


The Pursuit of Minimalism - abidingwoman.comThis is going to be a series. I sat down to type this out and quickly realized it would not all fit into one blog post. There is just way too much to say about it! Before we dive into a how-to post I have a few stories, clarifications, and persuasions for you. It may be tempting to skip over this part, but I think it will benefit you to read it. Mainly because minimalism is much more a mind-set than it is a method. You really have to have your mind reshaped to pursue minimalism.

I want you to learn how this can really help the home-maker who is struggling to keep her home organized. I want you to pursue it for the right reasons. I want you to know that it *can* work for you in whatever situation you find yourself in. (big house, little house, big family, small family, it can work for anyone!) I want to persuade you to view your belongings in a totally different way. I want you to know why you have to be “all in” committed to minimalism for it to really change your life. Then I want to tell you ‘how to’ pursue it starting now with your spring cleaning efforts. I hope I don’t sound like a sales-woman when I say, this could be the spring clean that will change your life!

I will share how to begin living a minimalist life-style, which I promise is not as hard as you may think! Once you change your mind-set, doing it is actually very easy! And I will tell you how to continue to grow in it and to perfect it, that is the phase I am in now, and it has become so easy and fun. It no longer stresses me out to organize or find places for things like it use to. I will help you get there, if you are willing to change your mind about your things!

Again this is a mind-set, not a method. I can give you steps (and I will eventually give you steps), but you can do the steps and stay in bondage to your things if you don’t build the foundation first.

How I Became a Minimalist:

So let’s kick it off with a testimonial of my personal story. I want to tell you how I went from an unorganized mess to a minimalist. I use to really struggle with keeping an organized home. I don’t any more. Now my house does get messy with toys and our daily things, but they are easily picked up; in about 10-15 minutes my house can be entirely clean. Not just look clean, but have stuff crammed, I mean actually clean! A few years ago this was not so, I really struggled with keeping my home clean and organized! It was bad! There were some areas I kept clean (my living room and kitchen mostly), but there were many areas that no matter what I did I could never keep organized and put together. I’m not talking about dirt and grime and cob-webs, I’m talking about our stuff. The task of organizing was absolutely daunting to me. I’ve never been a good organizer, I’m still not great at it, but minimalism makes it easier because there is way less to organize. Back then I hated it!!! Organizing was the bane of my existence. I wasn’t a hoarder or anything, in fact, I felt like I had the same amount of stuff as all the other people I knew. I just couldn’t manage it. I always had a room where I stored a few boxes of junk that I needed to sort through. I always had a mess of school and craft supplies and miscellaneous papers shoved in the corners in my office floor and piled all around my desk and shelves. I would spend hours picking up my children’s bedrooms, the toy/school room and my own, but in about three hours they would be destroyed again. I would pick up and organize all the time, but it never seemed to help! I constantly had an organization project going. It always flopped in the end! I’m not a lazy person, and I am passionate about my job as a homemaker, so I was perplexed by this whole cycle. I couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong. I put SO much work into it and yet the end result was *still* a messy house. I always questioned, “Why can’t I keep my house clean when I work so hard?” My husband would wonder what I had been doing all day, when in fact I had been cleaning and organizing all day. That caused conflict. It hurt him and communicated disrespect. It hurt me because I felt like a failure as a wife, homemaker, and mother. It hurt my children because they were learning my example, and they were witnessing the conflict between my husband and I. It hurt and it was very hard on my heart. I knew there were more important things than a clean house and I pursued those and focused on my areas of strength such as teaching my children diligently, but I believed a clean house was important too. I was suppose to be a keeper of my home. I was suppose to be building it, not tearing it down. A clean house is right, and I knew that. A clean house is a noble desire and we should pursue it! A clean house brings so much peace to the family! God is a God of order, and I knew that it would honor Him for me to run a home of order. I wanted it SO BADLY! But continued to walk in defeat no matter how hard I tried.

I just knew there had to be a way off of the hamster wheel! I began praying for the Lord to give me wisdom. I would say, “Lord, you know my heart, you know I want to be a good homemaker and to work as unto you, please show me what I’m doing wrong!” (in tears, begging, pleading, I was desperate)

The Lord did finally answer. Almost a year and a half ago we took a long work trip with my husband to Western Canada (about 3 days of driving for us). We had four children and as anyone knows when packing for a trip with lots of littles, we had to pack JUST the essentials to last us for six weeks. So I put together all that we needed: a week’s worth of clothing for everyone (we would have access to a laundry mat), toiletries, our current home school curriculum, our current read aloud books, 3 small toy sets, a pack n play, booster, diaper bag, blankets and pillows, an ergo, a stroller, my camera, my laptop, our homeschool ipad, and my husband’s work supplies. It seemed a meager amount to me, but still stuffed the 12 passenger rental van pretty tightly. Once we settled into our hotel in Canada, I was AMAZED at how light my work load felt while I was there. Sure, we had room service to come in and make the bed and clean the bathrooms and yes the hotel provided dinner 2 nights a week (amazing!), but I could’ve managed those things easily. The lightened load wasn’t from my relief of chores or dinner preparations; it was from the constant organization and picking up, and from being surrounded by my junk. It made a huge difference in my perspective to not be surrounded by a house that always seemed to be reminding me that there was so much work to do. The truth was, I couldn’t relax in my own home! I loved the simple hotel room with just the things we needed! It was SO much more manageable for me! What amazed me was how peaceful it felt to be surrounded with only the things we needed. The whole place could be picked up and put in order in five minutes flat. I could actually sit and read to my girls and enjoy it without feeling like it was taking away from homemaking. We could take outings without me feeling like I had work left undone. I could have my quiet time undistracted by a lingering pile of junk in the corner. It was wonderful! And it hit me then and there, I don’t need those things we left behind, in fact those things were a hindrance! My stuff was the problem!  As I processed through this life-lesson I was learning, the Lord brought this Scripture to mind:

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. -Hebrews 12:1


I just knew this was the answer!!!! Yes, we lay aside sin, but not only sin, also weight….. to me that means anything (my belongings included) which caused me to not run the race with endurance. It was clinging to me, it was holding me down, it was distracting me from the Lord and my work for him, and it needed to be thrown off! Isn’t it so sweet when the Lord finally answers! It was like a glass of fresh water after being lost in the desert! I was thrilled to say the least.

This was before I had ever even heard of minimalism, I truly feel the Lord revealed this concept to me through His Spirit and by His Word first, then allowed me to learn more about it through other means later. He used my circumstances of the trip to Canada to graciously give me a taste of how wonderful it would be to live that way, which motivated me even more. It still motivates me!

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How I got started:

While still on my trip and learning these things,I endeavored to get rid of everything I didn’t need or love as soon as I got back home. I knew it would be a lengthy process because I had accumulated a lot, but I was set on starting as soon as possible! When we returned, I chose an area (my office) which had been messy for years. I used the method I shared in my No Clutter November post. It worked! Four huge trash bags later, and my messy office was cleaned up in a day!!! It was the first time since I had moved into that house four years prior that the office had been clean! And I had organized it and worked on it countless hours in months and years prior with no lasting result of organization. It felt so good to have it really done! A few days later, it remained cleaned. Weeks later, it remained cleaned! I was amazed and relieved! This small victory motivated me to continue…. I started getting rid of more things. Every day I was throwing stuff away like crazy or putting things into a huge donation pile and taking trips to donate trunk loads at a time. “Ruthlessly Purge” was my motto. I showed no mercy for things. If I didn’t love it or need it, out it went. I had a lot of stuff and four children so this was (as I had assumed it would be) a long drawn out process. Becoming a minimalist isn’t something you can do in a week. It took you a long time to get all those things, it will take a little while to get rid of them. That was my thinking, and as far as I can see, that is the truth. I did it by areas; which later I found out wasn’t the best method, but that’s okay, it was still a huge help! In the middle of my homemaking reformation the Lord led us to sell our house and to buy our current farmhouse. I then turned my attention to packing up for the move. We had to do it quickly because the house sold two weeks after being on the market, It was such a rushed thing, and I was pregnant with morning sickness so my pursuit of minimalism was put on halt. We had to put most of our stuff in storage for about 8 months and I didn’t have time to purge as I packed; the farmhouse had to be gutted and reconstructed before we could even move in. We lived with the in-loves, with our basics and even still I felt like we maybe had too much with us for the space we had, my cue was that perpetual messes were becoming a distraction again. That is when I began researching for ideas on living with less, and that is where I stumbled across this wonderful concept of minimalism. It was exactly the life-style I knew the Lord was leading us to! The possibilities were inspiring me. The objective was becoming very clear. I knew where we were heading when we opened that storage building. I would be extremely selective about what I brought into my house, and I was. That storage building is still stacked full of stuff. We took out what we needed and wanted, and stopped there. And we have been living quite well with the things we have in our house for months now, in fact, I purge from this small amount we brought in all the time. I have grown to love the simplicity and order so much that I just keep pursuing it more and more. I plan to tackle the storage building in the spring (it’s just too cold for me right now), but I’m not planning to keep the stuff, but instead to get rid of it properly. There are only a few things I have remembered and wanted out of there that I plan to keep. The rest is going!

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I can’t tell you how much I love living with less! It seemed hard at first, but the more I got rid of, the easier it became to get rid of even more. My trajectory is definitely to continue in this direction and to teach my children to do the same. Minimalism has made home-making a joy to me again and I no longer feel like a failure.

what is minimalism?

So you may now be asking, “what is minimalism?”  I think some people have a misconception that minimalism is only for singles or for childless people who live in 500 square foot houses. The tiny house movement has made minimalism a bit trendy with the hippy crowd. Most people think of that type when they think of minimalism. It’s totally not like that for everyone! A basic definition of minimalism is:  living with ONLY what you NEED and LOVE. Also, I would add it is a whole new way of viewing your things and your home. You become much more intentional about the things you purchase or receive as gifts . You do not allow yourself to feel obligated to keep anything (either a gift or something you spent hard earned money on) if it hinders you from doing what the Lord has called you to by causing messes that you are continually spending time and energy on. Minimalism looks a little different from person to person and family to family, but it’s premise is pretty much the same for everyone; living with the things you absolutely want to live with and having your space look the way you want it to look. Minimalism is like organizing in reverse: instead of deciding where to put things you have, you look at your space and decide the very things you want to be there. Everything else needs to go somewhere else that you want it to be or out of the house. You also reshape your view of “need”. Our culture has made things into a need that are certainly not necessities. Figuring out those things that your family actually does use and need is a process, but it’s worth it!

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Do it for the right Reasons

A quick word of warning: if you begin to research “minimalism” you will sadly find very little Christian perspective on the topic. There are a lot of great “how to” articles out there, but the motivation for most of those authors is not living for the Lord, but instead living for themselves. That is NOT where I would encourage your heart to be in this pursuit. If you want to get rid of your things so that you can do whatever it is that makes you happy, then you are worshiping yourself, and that is very dangerous for your soul! (call me dramatic if you want, but it’s just the truth) You will hear a lot of selfish reasoning in most articles on the topic, and actually it can sound appealing to the flesh….. travel, see the world, focus on climbing the career ladder, sit in silence, read, meditate, sip tea, retire early to a life of leisure.  I just want to gently warn you that is not Biblical! That is not how Christians live or think. If your heart is being drawn towards living a minimalist life then let it be for the glory of God. Let it be to honor your husband and children. Let it be so that you can work less on organizing your stuff, and spend that (undistracted) extra time in prayer, the Word, diligently teaching your children, and in service to God. There is nothing wrong with silence and relaxing with a cup of tea or traveling, those are blessings to refresh us, but those should not be life objectives for the Christian.

Minimalism does work!!! It will get you the freedom from the mess that you’ve always been wanting, but I pray that you pursue that with a pure heart and not out of selfish ambition.

Can a big family live a minimalist life-style?

This is a question I get sometimes when I explain to people that I am a minimalist. It is asked in a variety of ways, “is that house going to be big enough?” “don’t you need…. (fill in the blank item)?” ,but the big question above is at the heart of all the other questions, and so I think it a profitable thing to answer. In a word, yes! A big family absolutely can live a minimalist life-style! And let me explain, In truth, a big family only *really* needs a few more things than a small family with only two children. In fact, I had way more stuff when I just had my first two children than I have now for all of us (with the exception of beds and carseats). Kids don’t need every gadget and toy that comes along! They only need a few toy sets and puzzles. I promise they play in a much more content fashion with less than they do with more. I have seen the fruit of both first hand; I saw clearly that more toys only makes them play less! It doesn’t seem like it would be that way, but it definitely is! They don’t need a closet full of clothes and accessories.  And (this is a big one!) you don’t have to keep everything someone gives them for Christmas and birthdays! Gifts are a great way to see what toys work best for your family. If a toy becomes a nuisance or a constant mess maker, then get rid of it. The person who gave it did not want to give you something that would make your life hard, they wanted to bless you. So feel no guilt and donate it or give it to someone who will actually be blessed by the item. Give thanks to the person who bought it when it is received, give thanks to the Lord for the way you feel so loved by the person giving the gift, teach your children to do this because we give thanks in all circumstances, and then if you don’t love or need it, get rid of it! If people ask what you want, tell them exactly what you want! I recommend crafts (which can be done and then thrown away) or good books that you want in your family library, or experience gifts like season tickets to a local theme park or zoo or art classes. It most certainly can work for a big family, but you can’t have it in your head that you and your children must have whatever people and the world tells you that you need. You really probably don’t need it!

I believe this can work for anyone and any situation if you want it to and that it can be altered to fit various life-styles. If you have a huge house and lots of space to put things, then you can likely have more things than someone like me. And sure, there are things I wish I could buy and find a space for, I’d love to have some work-out equipment, but I don’t have the space for them so I will just workout outside and chasing my kids. If I don’t have a place for it, then I don’t get it. However, if you have space for a work-out room, can afford it, and you want one, go for it! That is still minimalism. It just looks different depending on the space you have to work with.

Now I will say minimalism is not for everyone. If you are a great organizer and you easily keep your house in order….. then keep your things. But I’m not bent that way, and for me to continue down the path I was on was like trying to shove a circle puzzle piece into a square spot. Nothing lined up! If you hear this concept and think it’s not for you, then great, but don’t quickly discount it because you are not ready to get rid of your things. If you are struggling with organization, at least give this a go in a few areas of your life and experience what a difference it makes. Try out my no clutter method, and get rid of everything you don’t need or love.

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No Clutter November : Everything In Its Place

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How is No Clutter November going for you thus far? I have been taking it slow with the No Clutter endeavor because with an already full schedule that is just how I have to do things. I have been purging like a mad woman, and putting items in a keep stack from my three selected areas. The donation pile is massive, but that is a great thing for me! That was all for phase one. Now if you are following along, we are ready for phase two which is the final step: finding a place for the things in our “keep” stacks. If you haven’t done phase one then go back and do that before starting this one, but if you are ready for this, let’s dive in!

Everything in Its Place

In the past this has been the most difficult part of the process for me. I would get rid of the things that I no longer wanted or needed and then I would have this remaining stack of stuff that I had no idea where to put. Inevitably, I would stall out right here and leave my keep stack in a pile in the corner of the room, it would accumulate more junk, and then I would do phase one again…. the whole vicious cycle would repeat every few months. I had a corner of my office in my old house where this happened for years. I finally figured out the secret to breaking through phase two and when I FINALLY cleaned up that corner it felt SO GOOD! Organizing is a weakness for some of us, and for others it comes naturally. I am one of those people who struggle with knowing where to put things, but pushing through this phase is the only way to kick the clutter for good!

{Phase Two}

Evaluate Your Space

Look at the space you are trying to declutter, what SHOULD be there? If it is a pile of stuff on the floor then perhaps you will answer with “nothing” ,and will need to shift to organizing the things which were there onto a shelf or into a closet. You may need to purchase a shelf or something to put the things on. Maybe it’s a counter top and you just want a coffee maker, a cutting board, and dish drying rack to be there; then you will need to think of a good place to put the other things that were once kept there such as in the cabinet or pantry or another room. I know that this seems obvious, but you HAVE to have some sort of game plan for where the things you want to keep will go and what you want the outcome to be. If you aren’t very good at this thing (like me) then ask for ideas from your organized friends or look at organization ideas on pinterest. Pinterest is ultimately what helped me most because I searched for specifics like “organize office” or “organize pantry”, I chose the idea that looked and sounded the best, and then I did it. One thing I have learned over the years is to quit trying to reinvent the wheel…. if a mom has figured out something that works for her big family, then it will probably work for mine too. This is true for organizing as well as many other areas of life. On that note, when I’m gathering ideas for myself, I choose bloggers of big families because their situation is going to be most similar to mine. Reach out to bloggers and other moms who are very similar to your circumstances and ask them how they do things. I recently emailed with a mom blogger of 8 kids inquiring how she did her daily schedule. It was so helpful! This could turn into a whole other blog post, but all of this to say, you don’t have to come up with everything on your own! So save time and do what someone else has come up with.

Putting Things in Their Place

Look in your keep stack and put the things you really want or need in your designated space first. With each putting away you should seek to put like items with like items. All the books together, and if there is a book series keep that together, all the art items together, etc… And remember to put the things used most in the easiest place to access and put away, preferably close to where you use them. For example: My homeschool shelves…. I put in the current curriculum and books we are using in an organized and accessible spot on a shelf close to our table where we do school. This will help the cleanup process which will keep your area uncluttered in the long run. Next, put away the things you really like and plan to use, but maybe you don’t use it every day. Put that stuff in a spot you can access but it will be out of the way of the things you do use every day. Back to my homeschool organizing example: I then put the curriculum, activities, books, and things we use sometimes or things I really love and want us to use in the near future in an organized, but not as accessible spot on a difew rent shelf. Like with like examples: in a kitchen keep all of your baking supplies together and all of your pots and pans together, and all the food together and place them close to the spot where you will use them. For example my baking supplies (mixer attachments, cup measures, baking pans, spices, flour, etc.. are all in different cabinets close together and close to the countertop which I use for baking prep. I also keep my Kitchenaid mixer on that counter. You may have to grab a pen a paper and make notes for your specific area and then put away things. After putting the important things away, evaluate your space again…. is it full? if not then keep putting things from your keep stack neatly in the space. By the way, things do not have to be beautiful to be organized. Remember that Pottery Barn bookshelves are staged to appeal to the senses in order to sell products: most people don’t live in a world where all the book bindings and color coordinated, fancy book ends are displayed, and there is plenty of extra shelf space for adorable little trinkets and potied plants. The reality is for most of us that simply isn’t reality. Don’t get discouraged or defeated trying to make it look like the cover of a magazine.

The Random Leftover Stuff

Now you have come so far, don’t stop here! We all know the random things left at the end of a declutter project, right? Something like… a hairbow, a spatula, curriculum for fourth grade when we are on in second (but it was free so we took it), an extra phone charger, a canvas you plan to use for that pinterest project one day, kid art and completed worksheets, puzzles, a few dimes and pennies…. you know, the really random stuff. These things will now need to go to one of 4 places:
-to a specific spot where that kind of thing belongs in another room or area
-to the purge pile
-into the space being organized (but perhaps the back top shelf or somewhere very out of the way.
-to a “probation area” which is the place for the “I’m going to fix this” or “I’m going to diy this” items.

Let me explain the Probation Area

Place the item that you will fix or diy in a specified area. Give the item a 30 or 90 day probation time, and if you have not done with it what you planned by that time then purge it. This stuff needs to be kept in a logical and organized place that you see often so that you do not forget about it,but out of the way as well. Keep post-it notes on the items with their purge date written in large letters you can read from far away. When you see this it will prompt you to not procrastinate. It’s good to have a project day each week (mine is Saturdays) to work on things of this sort.

The Trash Bag Method:

There is another alternative for the people who struggle with this final step in the declutter process. If the final step seems too difficult (too many random things and you don’t know where to put them and you feel stressed and overwhelmed by it all), get anything very valuable out and put the rest in a black trash bag. Put the whole trash bag in a probation area and label the date; if you haven’t put the things away or needed anything out in 30 days then throw the whole bag away (don’t look inside! Just take it out to the trash can and forget about it.)

A word about sentimental items:

This is an area that can really mess people up when it comes to decluttering. I know some take a more minimalist view and say to toss it all, but I see some value in holding onto a select few things as long as they have a good place to be kept. I have one medium sized rubbermade tote that holds mine and my husband’s childhood sentimentals. Each of my children have a large binder; and I only keep my VERY favorite schoolwork and art in there as well as their tests and reports. (I call this their portfolio). We will likely end up with more than one binder per child: I think one elementary and one for middle and high school might work. Again these are VERY favorite which makes me seriously selective. I also keep some very special cards that some of my closest sisters in Christ have written and some from my family and husband; they are filled with Scriptures and encouragement, I keep them in a drawer by my bed. These mean a lot to me and I reread them from time to time. I keep a basket at the top of a closet which holds embroidered shirts my children wore for their birthdays and special occasions; one day when all my kids are grown out of the embroidery phase, I plan to pay someone to quilt them for me. I also keep photo albums and scrapbooks. Bottom line is, figure out what is very important to you and a find a box or folder to keep that kind of stuff in. Don’t keep too much! Remember that you can’t keep everything; and you should not feel guilty for throwing away birthday cards, kid school work, and other items like these. I have seen some great ideas for these things on pinterest. If you have a major surplus you just can’t part with: take pictures of children’s art and keep online or in a photo album on the computer. Some use scrap books and smash books, but be careful that you actually do the project and don’t just think about it. If you plan to do this, but those sentimental items in the probation stack.

Time to finish!

In the end, all of your things have been placed in their correct spot whether that is the trash can, donation, another room with like items, in the space, or in probation. See each part of this through completely! Finally, to celebrate, consider buying or making something lovely to add to that space. Perhaps a little mason jar with fresh flowers or a small piece of art…. it’s like the icing on the cake.

To keep clutter from recurring you will need to be diligent to put things away daily, to not pile things in your newly cleaned place that do not belong. If your family does this, consider buying each person a basket and gathering the stuff they sit in the area and deliver it to their rooms for them to put away. If they need help finding a place for these things then offer some tips. If it’s the hubby, don’t nag, but do offer ideas if it’s welcomed by him. Stay on top of the clutter zones in your house. And periodically go back through already organized shelves, cabinets, and closets to purge items that have never or rarely been used. Take it from a girl who use to really struggle with this, it does get easier the more you do it! We have to choose to live with intention and not out of habit; make it a point to do things differently and stick to it. You will be so happy that you did, and it will probably bless your husband and children too!

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